嫁来未曾出,此去长别离。
父母亦有家,羞言何以归。
此日年且少,事姑常有仪。
见多自成丑,不待颜色衰。
何人不识宠,所嗟无自非。
将欲告此意,四邻已相疑。
嫁来未曾出,此去长别离。
父母亦有家,羞言何以归。
此日年且少,事姑常有仪。
见多自成丑,不待颜色衰。
何人不识宠,所嗟无自非。
将欲告此意,四邻已相疑。
嫁过来后未曾出过门
此次离去便是长别离
父母也有自己的家
羞于启齿如何回去
如今年纪尚且轻
侍奉婆婆常有礼仪
被人见得多了自然显得丑
不必等到容颜衰老
谁不懂得(争宠的)门道
可叹我并无自身过错
想要诉说这番心意
四邻却已互相猜疑
Since wedding day, I've never stepped outside;
Now leaving, it's a long and final divide.
My parents have their own home, I confess,
Ashamed to speak of where to find redress.
Young still am I on this departing day,
Serving mother-in-law in proper way.
Too much exposure makes one ugly seem,
Ere fading looks destroy the self-esteem.
Who does not know the favor's fleeting art?
Alas, that I have no fault on my part!
I wish to tell them of this heart's despair,
But neighbors all around me doubt and stare.
曹邺借弃妇诗讽喻士人失意。
描绘了人际博弈中失势者的孤立与舆论困境。
通过弃妇自述展现封建婚姻中女性依附地位与悲惨命运
别离 · 失宠 · 羞归
本诗为五言古诗,押平声韵。
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